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Emotional child abuse

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Emotional abuse, also known as psychological abuse, is the most common type of child abuse.

Emotional abuse is when an adult deliberately and repeatedly causes a child emotional distress.

Emotional abuse can include:

  • forcing a child to be humiliated or to perform a degrading act
  • scaring or causing a child to be fearful
  • rejecting or telling a child they are worthless, unwanted or unloved
  • undermining, blaming, scapegoating
  • constant criticism or unrealistic expectations
  • name calling, threats, making fun of the child
  • isolating a child from opportunities to learn, interactions with others
  • withholding attention, ignoring or never showing affection
  • exposure to distressing events including family and domestic violence, other types of violence and drug use
  • bullying.

Often if a child is being emotionally abused they may also be suffering physical or sexual abuse or neglect.

Signs of emotional child abuse

Signs that a child is being emotionally abused include:

  • lack of apparent connection with parents
  • overly affectionate or clingy with strangers
  • anxious or extra vigilant disposition
  • emotional outbursts
  • problems interacting with other children appropriately
  • other symptoms of child abuse.

The impacts of emotional abuse can be long-term and cause serious harm to a child’s health, wellbeing and development.

Getting help

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Find out more

For more information on child abuse, including the information on reporting child abuse, please refer to the DHHS website.